THE PAWN IN THE GAME OF CHESS AND LEADERSHIP
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I DON'T LIKE THE BUSINESS OF LIKE
"He is like my brother" is a statement very often I was referred to which I detested. This statement is often made under the presumption that brothers are like Ram and Bharat of Ramayana. The intention could be to express deep intimacy and confidence but it does not reflect whether both parties feel equally cherished by the warmth. Moreover in the present day materialistic worldly relationship such statements look more clothe than real and that makes me detest the statement all the more. It is not that I have my dislike only for the comparison with sibling but with any such relationship. Basically I believe relations are imposed and one has no choice over it. One may fall in love with a girl and marry her to capture a relationship but what about the brother and sister in laws or the cousins of the spouse. One has no choice but to accept them as relatives and also invite them for social and cultural occasions of the family as warranted by customs and culture ...