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What happens when you are a nice person?? You are 1.      Doubted 2.      Accepted with skepticism 3.      Accepted with thanks 4.      Trusted 5.      Reciprocated 6.      Expectation enhanced 7.      Used 8.      Thrust unwanted jobs 9.      Taken for granted 10.   Ignored How do we respond to each of the above treatment to ensure that nice people remain nice and happy. When you are   Doubted -- accept it as it is natural especially if the other person is     not known to be nice. Accepted with skepticism -- wait and watch. Acceptance is on the way. Accepted with thanks -- begin a relationship as the signals augur good relationship. Trusted -- enhance the trust Reciprocated -- build the relationsh...

Electricity is also called 'power', may be because it wants to behave like people in power. It wants people to be attached to it just as a refrigerator is forced to for its smooth survival. But the electricity is by design is controlled by the "switch on and switch off mechanism''. Power has a tendency to fluctuate just as men in power have the tendency to misuse or favor with power. To stabilize men in power there are mechanism like RTI, court and other legal interventions and the power stabilizes itself through the fuse mechanism, transformer as also the branded stabilizers. But men in power are viewed by people differently. 'Keep safe distance' is one policy and also 'be in contact only if necessary' is the other. A bulb, fan, or TV are in touch with power but livens up the connection only when needed. Most people prefer to be such. A cell phone or a laptop has slightly more selfish behavior. They get in touch, draw sufficient...